March 2021

Recently a client mentioned how society places value on women based on their sexuality. And how this can show up in our relationships and make us feel pressure to be sexual beings because it is expected. It struck me because …

I used to think I sucked at polyamory. I’ve literally written posts talking about this very concern. It just didn’t come easily to me and I found myself anxious and triggered in most of my relationships outside of the one …

I used to think I was “hard to love.” I often demanded so much time, energy and attention from my partners and when I didn’t get what I needed exactly how I wanted it I’d be out. This really started …