In the four years I’ve been polyamorous I have put myself out there a LOT. I’ve felt deep love, profound heartbreak, unprecedented passion. I’ve lost myself. I’ve found myself. I went on around 25 first dates in 2019. Clearly way …

This is what I’ve got today. A whatever face with a side of curmudgeon. The past few days I’ve only had a very specific kind of energy to focus on connecting with actual people and very little energy to connect …

So I was dumped this weekend by someone I’d been seeing for a few months. While done thoughtfully, it was also rather abrupt as it came directly after a lovely time together. At first I was sad. Being rejected sucks. …