I woke Saturday morning to a mix of jittery excitement.
It felt like a combination of a 6 year old on Christmas and a teenager giving a public speech for the first time.
Something new was happening. Something I actually wasn’t really involved in. Something I had little control over.
My fiance’ was having coffee with the man I’ve been seeing for the past 6 months. (Insert nervous face emoji here.)
And get this. They REALLY liked each other.
Let’s take this in for a second. Just humor me if you will.
I have two men in my life.
They are both amazing in so many ways. They both care for me very much. And now they could see themselves being friends. Wha whaaaaat?! Amazing. (Insert heart eye emoji.)
Now a Poly person reading this would be like “yes, of course, what else would they do?” But I know many of my readers are monogamous, which means your minds may be blown right now.
I mean mine still kind of is. Despite the fact that I’ve been in this lifestyle for over a year. This part was unchartered territory. But it offered me something really valuable.
It reminded me that life really can be whatever you want it to be. You just need to take a moment and consider what you actually want. And then have the courage to own it. To LIVE it.
This doesn’t just apply to a particular relationship style either. This applies to everything.
Maybe you want to leave you 9-5 and pursue a dream that has been nipping at your high heels.
Perhaps you feel guilty because, despite the fact you think you should, you really don’t see yourself having children.
Or maybe you want to leave this country, move to India and meditate for 5 hours a day.
All of these things are wildly unconventional and go against the grain of what has been embedded in our cells from birth. So it’s so challenging to break out of these rules. But at what cost?
You have this life. Are you living it exactly how you want to? Because guess what? You can be. You NEED to be.
If you asked me five years ago if I could ever see myself engaged and also dating another man and that they would enjoy each other’s company and possibly even be friends, I would have fainted.
But that’s the beautiful thing about life, it’s a mystery. It doesn’t give you all of the info all at once. It drips it out for when you are ready to receive it.
So as we move into 2018 and you begin to consider what you want your life to unfold into, just remember, you are only as limited as you allow yourself to be.
Dream Big. And by all means, be unapologetically YOU.
PS This is my last blog of 2017. Wow. What a beautiful unfolding this year has been. I will see you in the new year with more breakthroughs and more adventures.
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